Thursday, October 6, 2011

Living Your Dreams


In the last day or two, I made the decision to leave my current job and career and travel the world on a sabbatical. I've discussed possible departure dates with my employer as I've kicked around in my head what I'm doing, if I'm doing it, where I'm going and what is next. In the end, I knew that if I didn't jump, I'd forever stand still.

This decision has been a long time coming or at least something I've been thinking about doing for a while. It isn't a perfect time for to go; I'm not sure there is a perfect time. The only thing stopping me had been fear. Fear of letting go. Fear of what's next. Fear of HOME-LESS-NESS. (One of my friends assured me I could always come live with her. Whew!) My friends are toasting me now--at least to my face--but I'm still terrified.

My tentative decision comes as the world learns that Steve Jobs has died. Mr. Jobs had been a mental role model for many people, particularly for his perfectionism but also for being a visionary. What a legacy he leaves!

Check out this quote from him:

‎"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

RIP, Mr. Jobs. Thank you for your words--and your legacy. I know others will have LOTS of opinions about my round-the-world tour. (ACK!) I'm stepping out on faith to follow my heart and intuition. Friends and readers, would you quit your job and travel the world? Do you think it's foolish? What dreams, goals, hopes do you have? What are you afraid to do? What's stopping you from living life to the fullest? Bring it on! BTW, while you're praying on your goals, keep me in your prayers and give me a shoutout if I can stay on your couch!

xoxox

9 comments:

a.m. pessetto said...

My couch is always open. Congrats. Can't wait to hear about your adventures!

Kasey said...

I love, love, love your strength and drive and passion to follow what is in your heart. We all could learn a thing or two from you on that for sure. Enjoy your adventures. Breathe. Take it all in. Take tons of photos (and share them!). Smile all the time and pay attention to the little things. I look forward to following along! :) (oh, and the obvious, STAY SAFE.)

jean-yves said...

Congratulation Monica!Explore and dream while you can. Don't be afraid and live your life. Like Steve Jobs said, don't be disturb by the noise surrounded you but listen you heart and go, go, go! If you're coming to Ottawa let me know. There'is a place for you to stay. Keep me posted ! Beaucoup de plaisir pour toi petite tortue :)

Jean-Yves

Don said...

Interestingly enough I almost became a person who'd travel the world spread the good news myself, back in '09. I commend you for your courageous efforts.

Steve Jobs will be missed.

April D. Thompson said...

Congratulations! I'm so excited for you making decision, one I've been debating for a LOONNGGG time myself. Keep us all posted where you land and if you ever need a couch (or air mattress) and I have one, I got you covered! :-)

Monica said...

Thanks everyone!! I am actually terrified! I have changed my mind 209999 times but I AM going. LOL.

Val said...

Good luck and congrats Monica! What a wonderful post; I've been following your blog, and now it's about to showcase a zillion more countries (slight exaggeration). Hope to see you in Japan.

All the best,
Val

Monica said...

Thanks, Val! Do you live in Japan? I hope to get there.

Zahra said...

Cheers to you mydear. I look forward to following you LIVING your DREAMS. Please consider submitting to the Women of Color Travel Anthology! www.womenofcolortravelstories.com.